This one is really going to bend the Dale Earnhardt caps and peel back the Calvin pissing stickers on the F-750s of the flag-waving redneck crowd, but for the love of Hee-Haw:
Stop using this idiotic phrase.
One thing I love about these United States is the fact I don't have to love everything about these United States and I have the right not only to hold these beliefs but profess them on these Interwebs. My feeling is more along the lines of "(The United States of) America: Deal With it or Leave it".
The fact is, what you are really saying is "America: Agree With Me or Leave it" when one of the best parts of living in this country is our right not to agree with whatever asinine position you hold. And my response to you is "Ryan: Blow Me or Leave Me Alone".